Not a dating app.
A family one.
Date to Marry is for people who are done swiping and ready to build a family. We match you on what actually predicts a lasting marriage: your values, your faith, how you want to raise your children, and your vision for home. One person at a time. No games.
Free to download · iPhone and Android · No subscription
What we believe
“We believe the family is the most important unit of society. Children raised in loving, stable homes become the people who heal the world’s hardest problems.”
Modern dating is broken
Swiping apps make money when you stay single. We built the opposite.
No more endless options. We show you one carefully chosen match so you can give them your real attention.
We match on what matters for marriage: faith, family goals, how you handle conflict, what you want from life.
Every interaction builds your reputation. People who show up with honesty and respect are recognized for it.
How Date to Marry works
Finding a life partner should take more thought than ordering food.
Tell us who you are
Answer real questions about your faith, family goals, finances, and how you handle conflict. Takes about 20 minutes. If that feels like too much, this probably is not the right app for you.
Meet one person at a time
Every match is scored against your stated values and non-negotiables before you see it. We tell you why we think you are a good fit. No stack of faces. No guessing games.
Talk with purpose
We start you off with conversation prompts that go deeper than small talk. After a few days, the app helps you set up a real date. In person.
Grow together
After you match, Date to Marry stays with you. A private journal for things your partner cares about. Date night ideas. Even a direct line to marriage counselors when life gets tough.
What we believe
The family is the most important unit of society.
Children who grow up in stable, loving homes go on to do remarkable things. When families break down, communities break down with them. No government program can replace what a good home provides.
Date to Marry exists to help good people find each other, build real partnerships, and raise families that make the world better. That is not a slogan. It is why we built this.
Strong families build strong societies.
Made for your chapter
Built for the people other apps forgot
Most dating apps were designed for people with nothing to lose. This one was designed for people with a full life, and the courage to share it.
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Single over 30
Your friends paired off and the apps got younger. You did not change; the room did.
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Divorced
You know exactly what you want this time, and what you will not accept.
For you -
Widowed
Loving again is not forgetting. It is choosing life, with a full heart.
For you -
Never married
Not late. Deliberate. You waited for the real thing.
For you -
Single parents
Your children are not the complication. They are the first thing we match on.
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Single over 40
Fewer games, and much less patience for them.
For you
What you actually get
The introduction is a week of it. Everything after is the part nobody else builds.
One match at a time
A single person, and no one else in the background. Nothing to compare them against, nobody else waiting, no queue to work through. A truly one-to-one experience.
Matched on what decides a marriage
Faith, children, where you will live, your timeline, how you would run a household. Not photographs, not shared hobbies.
A written reason for every match
Each introduction arrives with an explanation of why the two of you, scored against the things you said were non-negotiable. No black box.
Conversation worth having
Guided questions for the first days, so the opening message is never "hey" — then prompts drawn from the research on how two strangers become close.
Date ideas and a partner journal
A private place to note what they love and what they need, and daily suggestions for how to show up, drawn from their own words. Plus date nights worth clearing an evening for.
Counselling, when we open it
A directory of licensed relationship counsellors, so asking for help early is a normal thing rather than a last resort. It is built and not open yet — there are no practitioners in it, and we would rather say so than pretend.
Real love. Real families.
The kind of forever your grandparents had, built on purpose, not on chance.
Not a subscription. A community.
Most dating apps charge you every month and make more money the longer you stay single. Date to Marry works differently. You pay once to join. When you find your person, you are invited to pay it forward so someone else can find theirs.
The people who came before you helped make your journey possible. When you succeed, you do the same for the next person.
Questions and answers
What makes Date to Marry different from Hinge or Bumble?
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Those apps still rely on swiping and quick judgments. Date to Marry shows you one match at a time, matches on deep values, and supports your relationship after you meet. And every match comes with the reasoning behind it.
What does "one match at a time" mean?
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You get one match. You talk to that person, get to know them, decide if you want to meet. Only then do you move on. No browsing a catalog of people.
Is Date to Marry only for a specific religion?
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No. Date to Marry is for anyone serious about marriage, from any background. We ask about your faith and values so we can find someone compatible, but all traditions are welcome.
What happens after we match?
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Date to Marry becomes your relationship companion. You get a private partner journal, daily gesture ideas drawn from their own answers, date-night questions, milestones and a private monthly check-in. A counsellor directory and a mentor community are being built and are not open yet.
Is Date to Marry available now?
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Yes. Date to Marry is on both the App Store and Google Play, and it is free to download.
How much will it cost?
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A one-time entry fee to join. No monthly subscription. Couples who find their partner through Date to Marry are invited to contribute back to help fund the next person. Think of it as a community, not a service.
A family-oriented dating app built for marriage, not for swiping
If you have ever searched for a marriage focused dating app, a date to marry app, or a serious relationship app that actually leads to marriage, you already know the problem. Most apps reward swiping, not committing. They make money when you stay single. Date to Marry is the opposite. Date to Marry is a family-oriented dating app for marriage minded singles who are ready to find a life partner, get married, and build a home together, and it is available now on Android.
This is not another Tinder or Bumble. There is no swiping, no endless scrolling, no catalog of faces. Date to Marry is a marriage-first dating app that shows you one match at a time. We built it for people who believe that the family is the most important unit of society. People who want to date to marry, not date to pass time.
Whether you are a practicing Muslim looking for a halal dating app or nikah app, a Christian looking for faith-based matchmaking, Jewish and searching for a shidduch, or someone with no religious affiliation who is simply tired of hookup culture and wants a dating app without swiping, Date to Marry was built for you. We welcome everyone who is serious about marriage, from any background, any culture, any tradition.
Date to Marry works by matching you on what actually predicts whether a marriage will last: shared values, faith, family goals, financial outlook, parenting philosophy, and how you handle conflict. Not your height. Not your photo. Not a two-second swipe. Our modern matchmaking app scores compatibility across those dimensions and shows you the reasoning behind every match. We tell you exactly why we think you are a good fit.
What makes Date to Marry truly different is what happens after the match. Most dating apps disappear once you find someone. Date to Marry stays with you. Our relationship coaching features include a private partner journal where you track what your partner cares about, intelligent reminders for birthdays and important moments, curated date night ideas with local restaurant discounts, and a direct bridge to licensed marriage counselors when life gets tough. Date to Marry is not just a matrimony app. It is a relationship lifecycle platform that supports you from first match through lasting marriage.
We also do not charge you a monthly subscription that profits from keeping you single. Date to Marry uses a community stewardship model: you pay once to join, and when you find your person, you are invited to pay it forward for the next person. The couples who came before you helped fund your journey. When you succeed, you do the same.
Who is Date to Marry for?
Date to Marry is for marriage minded singles everywhere. We serve people in the United States, United Kingdom, Canada, France, Germany, the Middle East, Pakistan, India, Malaysia, Indonesia, Turkey, Nigeria, Kenya, Tanzania, the Philippines, and growing. If you are a Muslim looking for a halal marriage app, a Christian seeking a courtship app, a divorced parent ready for a second marriage, a professional in your 30s who is done with dating games, or anyone who simply wants to find a spouse with intention, you belong here.
Whether you search for date to marry, تطبيق زواج, aplikasi cari jodoh, app neman aure, شادی ایپ, evlilik uygulaması, site de rencontre pour mariage, app ya ndoa, hanap asawa app, or app de citas para matrimonio, you are looking for the same thing: a real partner, a real marriage, a real family. That is exactly what Date to Marry is for.
Why people choose Date to Marry over other dating apps
- Family-oriented, not hookup-oriented. Every feature is designed around building families, not maximizing screen time.
- One match at a time. No paradox of choice. No swiping. One carefully selected person who shares your values.
- Values-based matching. Every match comes with the reasoning behind it, so you can judge the fit yourself.
- Video introductions. See who someone really is before you match. No hiding behind old photos and filters.
- Post-match relationship support. Partner journal, gesture ideas, date nights, milestones and private monthly check-ins.
- Accountability system. Behavioral reviews build trust. Ghosters and time-wasters are flagged. Good people rise.
- No monthly subscription. A community model that aligns our success with yours.
- All faiths welcome. Muslim, Christian, Jewish, Hindu, secular. What matters is that you want marriage.
Ready to date with intention?
It is live on iPhone and Android. One person at a time, chosen for what actually predicts a lasting marriage.
Free to download · iPhone and Android · No subscription
Have thoughts about what we are building? We would love to hear from you.