For Christian singles
Courtship, with the structure to make it possible.
You are not short of convictions about how this should go. You are short of a place where the other person holds them too, and where the app is not quietly working against you. That is a structural problem, and it has a structural answer.
The short answer
Everyone here has declared that marriage is the goal before being shown to anybody. Every member has verified a government-issued identity document before they can be matched. There is no feed and no browsing: you meet one person at a time with a written explanation of why. Faith is asked as a weight rather than a label, and where you say sharing it is essential, that is treated as absolute in both directions.
The problem with the Christian dating apps
Most of them filter for a word. You tick Christian, everybody else ticks Christian, and you are returned a gallery of people who have all ticked the same box — which tells you almost nothing, because the distance between someone for whom faith decides how they spend a Sunday and someone for whom it decides how they spend their life is enormous, and the box does not see it.
Underneath the filter, the machinery is the same as everywhere else. An endless feed. Undeclared intentions. A conversation culture that makes it awkward to say you are looking for a wife or a husband, so people learn not to say it, and months go by before anybody finds out what anybody wanted.
None of that is a failure of the people using them. It is what happens when a serious intention is put through a product designed for an open-ended one.
What we are not going to do
We are not a church and will not behave like one. This page does not tell you what courtship should look like, how physical a relationship should be before marriage, or what your tradition requires of you. Those belong to you, to your convictions, and to people who actually know you.
We are also not going to describe ourselves as a Christian company. Members here are Christian, Muslim and of no faith at all, and pretending otherwise to whoever is reading would be the first dishonest thing on the page. What we can offer is a structure that takes a covenant view of marriage seriously, and matching that treats your faith as load-bearing when you say it is.
What the structure does
Faith is a weight, not a checkbox
Not just which tradition, but how much it decides. Essential, very important but flexible, respected, or personal to you. Where a member says sharing a faith is essential, that is applied as an absolute in both directions — not a preference a good score elsewhere can outweigh.
Marriage is declared before anyone sees you
Every member states it as a condition of being here. Nobody has to raise it, nobody has to work out what this is, and nobody is quietly seeing where it goes.
There is no browsing
No feed, no gallery, no search. One person at a time, chosen against what you said matters, with the reasoning written out. Courtship is nearer to this than it is to a queue.
Someone who knows you can vouch for you
A member can invite a person who knows them well to write about their character. Not a reference check and not a formality — a way for the people who have watched you become who you are to have a part in this.
Every member has proved who they are
A government-issued identity document, checked before anybody can be matched. Elsewhere "verified" means a selfie, which establishes that a person owns a face rather than a name.
The questions a marriage turns on, asked first
Children and when, where the life happens, the marriage timeline, how a household would run financially. Answered at intake, in writing, and several of them absolute — settled before an introduction, not discovered in a second year.
And it does not stop at the introduction
A wedding is the start of the work, not the end of it, and almost no product built for meeting people helps with any of what follows. Most of this one does: a private journal for what you are learning about them, daily suggestions for how to show up drawn from their own words, questions worth asking over dinner, milestones and a private monthly reflection. A counsellor directory and a mentor community are being built and are not open yet. What happens after the match.
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Look for a spouse, in a place built for it.
One payment of €249 when you join, never a subscription. €210 comes back if we do not bring you a relationship within a year.
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Is Date to Marry a Christian dating app?
Not exclusively, and we would rather say so than let you assume. Members are Christian, Muslim and of no faith. What everyone shares is that marriage is the goal. Faith is asked about directly, and where a member says sharing it is essential, that is treated as an absolute — so a Christian for whom that is essential is only ever introduced to someone who shares it.
How is this different from Christian Mingle or Salt?
Those filter for a label and then hand you a browsable pool. This asks how much your faith decides rather than only which tradition it is, removes browsing entirely, requires a government ID rather than a selfie, and continues after the match with journalling, guided conversation, date nights and private check-ins.
Can my family or my church be involved?
To the extent you want them to be. A member can invite someone who knows them well to write about their character, which is the formal mechanism. Beyond that the account is yours: your answers, your matches, your decisions, and whoever you choose to bring into it.
Does the app connect me with Christian counsellors?
No. The counsellor directory is built but has no practitioners in it, so it sits behind a Coming Soon notice rather than pretending to be open — and it does not filter by faith. An earlier version of this page said otherwise, which was wrong. Everything else described here works today.
